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Lockity Locked. [Feb. 17th, 2016|03:34 am]
From now on, friends only entries, with probably the occasional certain friends only entries. Or maybe one day I might be nice and have a public entry.

HOW JIE LIN GO GET AN ACCOUNT. :)


Unlocked, for Amy.
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Of love: be it gay, straight or friendship. [May. 10th, 2012|09:56 am]
I'm in the Bordeaux train station waiting for my ride to Lourdes. LOURDES! So excite. Hoping these two days will bring me a little spritual enlightment, hurr.

Anyway, i wanted to talk about something that has been on my mind for a while about people who are pro same sex marriage. Recently, North Carolina passed a ban on same sex marriages, and celebrities and influential people have taken to twitter to bash the state and their decision. Some of the remarks include 'homophobic', 'backward' and even commenting on the legality for divorce and first cousin marriages.

I do not doubt that North Carolina IS essentially homophobic, and really, the marriage for first cousins and divorce IS something to reconsider. But is this truly such a surprising decision?! I mean, NC isn't exactly LA or NY. It's pretty much old fashion and good old country values over there. In any case, it's so easy to hop over to another state that does support gay marriage and get married over there instead. The dramatics are so entirely unnecessary. It's not as if they live in NC ANYWAY.

But that's not my point. The thing is, i wonder, since WHEN did same sex marriage become the 'right' and 'just' thing, and those against it are all bad and evil and homophobic? Because personally, i do not support same sex marriages. I believe it defeats the purpose of marriage cos the very essence of marriage is to create life and a family, which a gay couple cannot exactly produce naturally. But this does not mean i am homophobic. I mean, some of my close friends are lesbian.

In fact, just because the Catholic church doesn't support same sex marriage, does not mean THEY are homophobic either. The last time i checked, principally, catholics are supposed to love everybody, regardless of their orientation or beliefs. Of course, i'm not saying that all catholics are not homophobic, because some are. I cannot help that. But by right, we are supposed to look beyond these issues and love everyone anyway.

So what i don't understand is that when did it become so wrong for me to say that i do not support gay marriages? Since when did it become a 'wrong' point of view? I have my own beliefs, but by no means am i enforcing it on others, nor do i condemn those who think otherwise. It's very silly to think that those people who fight to have their opinion legal, are the very people who condemn others who don't hold their point of view. And with the influential and popular figures enforcing their say on their followers... Hypocrisy much?

At the end of the day, I would just like to have my opinion respected. Yes, i may not be helping your case at all in your quest to legalise gay marriages, but bashing those who do not believe in it only makes them more annoyed and more intolerant of your cause.

After all, i'm not bashing you for YOUR beliefs. And above all, i offer all the love and respect a friend should have. Question is, can you do that?
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Fluffy thoughts [Apr. 10th, 2012|06:59 pm]
If there is one thing you can judge a guy by, it's his music taste. Because music is an expression of the soul.

Personally, i need a guy who loves the old soulfoul music. A guy who feels his heart strings tug from the sadness of a guitar riff, at the pain from each note of a raspy voice.

Because a guy like that will fully appreciate the beauty of being with you despite the dark, turbulant times. Despite the wounds you may have inflicted on him. He can take that pain and withstand it for the passion. Withstand it for promise of the beautiful times ahead.
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Living the Dream [Mar. 1st, 2012|05:22 pm]
So after 10 years, I finally get to be 12 years old again as a1 finally decided to regroup and hold a concert with Blue (and that dude from 98degrees, but seriously he is so redundant)! I was transpotted back to a time where a huge a1 poster hung over my bedroom wall, when I went on crazy spending sprees on British magazines that if so much even <i>mentioned</i> a1 I would buy and met friends on the internet purely through a united love of a1. Honestly, even after they disbanded and I grew up, I kept tabs on their careers (okay, maybe mostly Ben's. hahaha!) and watched from a distance as they reunited and rebuilt their fanbase from Norway/Britain.

Having said that, I was probably the only idiot at the concert that knew EVERY song. So anyway, this was how the concert went.

Reached Singapore Indoor Stadium after rushing from work and met Garnell at our seats. Jeff Timmons was on first, and I can't say how unamused I was. Probably one of the worst opening acts, let alone ANY acts, I've ever watched. When lipsyncing through his first song, the music started crashing, and the whole way after the music just kept acting up. So bad that he had to sing accapella on his own for a bit, which was unbelievably awkward. I felt sorry for him but I stopped as soon as he came back out after the a1 set to do some more shouting random things and pretending to sing. Sigh.

Anyway, then came the main event that I've been waiting the past 10 years for- a1!!!! They came out after a video opener that they were raving about before in their London concert, and opened with Same Old Brand New You, which is probably the song that I first fell in love with them for. How apt. Anyway, it was a very rock-ish version of the song, along with all the other songs because since their third album image change, they work with a live band and music. Definitely no plus-one music failing for them! They sang quite a few songs from their latest album- Waiting for Daylight, Take Me Home, I'm in Love and I Hate It. Really love how they interacted with the crowd, and taught the crowd a catchy hook with cute hand gestures for I'm in Love and I Hate It for us to sing along with.

They also played Ready or Not, in which I did the cheesy hand actions with full vigour. Everyone around us probably thought I was a weird person who never got out much. Hahaha! They also did Like a Rose, where Ben sat in front of one camera and sang into, and only stopped to bring an awestruck girl onto stage and give her flowers, along with A LOT OF HUGS. Jealousy level 99 manzz. They performed Caught in the Middle, Everytime, Take on Me, and Lady Gaga's Poker Face and Black Eyed Peas' I Got a Feeling. Thought they could totally do without the other artistes' songs, after all, we were all there for a blast of nostalgia. At one point in time, Ben asked the crowd what we'd like to hear, and he was all, 'Flying Without Wings? Nahhh that's not our song, that's Westlife!' and then launched into two lines of the song nevertheless. So cute.

My favourite part was probably the medley they did, rehashing all their songs from their first three albums. Starting out with One More Try, they did Be the First to Believe, Summertime of Our Lives, Living the Dream, Heaven By Your Side, No More and One More Song. When they started Living the Dream, I couldn't believe my ears because it wasn't a single, but it's definitely one of my most favourite songs by them. I was the only one screaming my head off among a crowd of clueless people. I strongly suspect most of them were there for Blue anyway. Another highlight of the concert for me was when Christian started singing the beginning of Heaven By Your Side, he was taken aback by how many people were singing along. He paused as he heard the crowd continue on, and then gave a quiet smile and uttered a simple, 'Nice.'. Very very subtle powerful moments like that kill me. In a good way.

The a1 set was definitely super amazing and even Garnell, who was mostly there for Blue, enjoyed herself immensely and was blown away by them. Definitely a good sign. Not to mention, they completely hyped up the crowd for when Blue came on, no thanks to Jeff Timmons..

So anyway, Blue came on next! Honestly, I haven't been thinking about the Blue aspect of the concert, only as a tactic to get Garnell to come. I totally didn't care about them anymore, especially when they performed at Eurovision last year with 'I Can', and reminded us all of why cheesy boybands died off in the first place. I mean, Duncan wore a CRAVAT. A scarf, seriously? It's so sad to think of the possibility that someone so hot is bi. Sigh.

Anyway, but when they came on, they were SOLID. They had backing tracks and didn't play live music, but their sense of performance and their simple but bold dance moves made it amazing. And they sang in harmony! Wowww. And plus, we knew every song, which is never a bad thing. Lee even made a crack on how gay one of the dance moves were. And Duncan was RIPPED. Like, monster biceps and a sharp jawline, and constantly making smoldering, sexy eyes. HAHA! 

Well anyway, to top off the night, after the concert a reporter from the Straits Times approached G and I and asked us what we thought about the concert, and we told her how we've been fans for more than 10 years and all. 

Yup that about wraps up our night. A night that has been a childhood dream come true, or as a1 would sing, <i>'I can't believe I'm living the dream.'</i>
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Tetsuya's [Oct. 20th, 2011|12:20 am]
So I know I haven't written here in ages, but well, I just graduated and it's a monumental part of my life, and I should journal it down. So besides a trip to New Caledonia, part of the festivities was a dinner at Tetsuya's, arguably the best restaurant in Sydney. And let me tell you, although I have never been to a fine diner restaurant of this calibre before, I would never in the entire world ever expect such exceptional service like tonight, to see a waiter go so above and beyond.

Our evening started when we were seated and the waiter, whose name we didn't get, came to first and foremost ask if we would like to have still, sparkling or tap water. Being stingy and asian as us, after a little deliberation, we decided on tap water. After the water was served, said waiter (let's name him John, for simplicities' sake) came back to ask us if we would like any alcohol. My sister, Maxine, said no, I proclaimed that I was driving, and my mum decided that since it was a mini grad celebration, settled on champagne. After the drinks order, I looked around to notice that EVERYONE, and I mean EVERYONE, had at least a glass of wine. Oh well. By this time when John came back to us, I was pretty sure he was clearly detecting our stingyness and his friendliness seemed very trying, almost to a point of patronising.

He asked us if we were firstly celebrating anything, and I declared to him my graduation. With a few words of congratulations, he proceeded to notify us of the 9-coursed degustation menu of the evening and asked if we were fine with the menu. I hate lamb with all my might, so I told him that I didn't eat lamb, and he proposed an alternative meat such as beef, which I gladly agreed to. 

By the 3rd or 4th course, the courses seemed to come in long intervals in between and our bread have ran out. I wanted to take advantage of the divine tuffle butter, so I turned to my mum and asked if we should ask for more bread. My mum obliged, and I told her to wait for one of the kitchen runners to serve the course to ask because I didn't think John was impressed with us as it was. 

Somehow, we kept forgetting to ask the kitchen runners as they brought our food, so we relented and Mum asked John for more bread. After the bread came, John asked us if it was the butter that kept us wanting more, and we laughed as I made a joke about how nicely designed the bread was. In turn, John joked that with all the butter on our table, we could just stuff some into our bags. He told us that it would be easy to make it at home ourselves, and we commented that we were thinking of it, as we heard that we could get the truffle salsa range at David Jones. He then asked a bit about my graduation, and we had a pleasant conversation about my graduation and life in Sydney. I was beginning to erase my initial perception of any patronisation. 

As the course of the lamb came, I was elated that the kitchen runner had put down a beef dish in front of me. Specially prepared Angus beef with mustard and wasabi. I was actually expecting them to merely replace the meats within the same dish, not to cook up something else entirely. It was so good and Mum and Maxine remarked that it was even better than the lamb. 

At this point I was noticing that each waitstaff had a pin on their attire. I asked John what is symbolised, and he happily explained that Tetsuya's is part of a international group of hotels and restaurants that are judged to have a unique quality about them, with high levels of service and quality, called Relaix and Chateaux. These are compiled into a book to help travellers plan their holidays every year. My mum remarked that when she's in France, she always asks for the book to refer to. Upon hearing this, John immediately told us he'll get us a copy of the book, and promptly disappeared, only to reappear with the book at our table. 

After our main courses have been served, John asked us if we would like any more of the truffle butter and bread. With a negative, he asked us if we were certain. They was still quite a bit of butter left, and well, we had handbags, he said cheekily. Seriously, handbags. We laughed it off. A few moments later, he returned with a print out of the truffle butter recipe. Amazed, we thanked for it. As we were reading, he said, "And here, I was serious about popping these into your handbags, so pop it in! Go on!" as he gave Mum and Maxine each a small wrapped package. Turns out that it was a bottle of truffle salsa each, retailing at David Jones for at least $15. At this point, we were amazed at his generosity, and my mum remarked to me how he has taken a pleasant yet unexpected liking to us. 

As dessert came, he greeted me with a chocolate fondant with a candle on top of the cream. He wished me congratulations on my graduation, and served the other two with another chocolate dish. After taking pictures, we realised that we had no utensils, and politely asked for some. Extremely apologetic, he returned with not only utensils, but a complimentary additional dessert course! For something we didn't even consider a mishap! But let me tell you a bit about my fondant. I've tasted fondant before, but this was fondant from the ANGELS. The cake was light and fluffy with a slight crust on the outside, and gorgeously melty on the inside. I must've died and went to heaven. 

As we finished dessert, John came back to our table with a print out of the list of dishes on tonight's menu. It was marked, 'Wednesday, 19th October 2011; Congratulations!'. I initially thought that the restaurant had these print outs prepared for tables with a celebratory occasion, but as I looked towards Mum's and Maxine's copy, I realised that theirs didn't have congratulations on it. My copy was personalised. Wow. I was simply touched.

Over some tea (in which I chose Shen Cha- love it!), we agreed to leave John a $20 tip. However, the bill came and notified us that there wasn't any service charge (and happily, we weren't charged extra for the tea. Hooray! Yes, I'm pretty stingy!!!). We decided to give him a personal $50 tip, and for $50 for the best service I've ever received in my life, I thought that maybe it wasn't enough. But after passing the tip on, John walked us all the way down and out of the restaurant, happily chatting to us. Even though he's already gotten his tip, he still chooses to go the extra mile. Amazing.

Tetsuya's was beautiful for the food, but their staff is what really makes the place truly somewhere fit for royalty. Best. Graduation. Ever.
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The competition of egos. [Mar. 27th, 2011|02:58 am]
Sorry that I haven't blogged in a while. I have gotten pretty lazy and if I wanted to rant, I'd do so on twitter. I'd blog only if I have too many thoughts to fit into 140s characters. Well, I HAVE tweeted on this issue but I feel that it's SO IMPORTANT that I have to rant some more. Hurrr.

My dad sent me an e-mail containing an abridged version of this blog post, "My Vote Counts: 10 Reasons Why I Cannot Vote for the PAP in the Next Election".

Let me just start out by saying, this guy is an idiot. He is 21 years old, first time at the polling booths, and his hands are itchy with the ability to affect a decision of this magnitude for this once in his life. Seriously, I don't give a damn what he votes. But apparently, his blogpost has gone viral and I don't want anyone to be swayed by his biased opinions.

One excuse that almost every opposition supporter uses in not voting of PAP is the whole Lim Chin Siong/Operation Coldstore saga. PLEASE lah. This happened in the 1960s! TWO prime ministers ago! Why is it still held over their heads?! Yes, our current prime minister is the guilty prime minister's son. But ARE you like YOUR father? Has Lee Hsien Loong showed any similarities in ruling like his father so far? Even if the answer is yes, are we even facing the same political context as the 1960s? 

Just to clarify: I am not usually into politics. And I'm not in the PAP fan club either. But at this elections, I'm thinking PAP is good choice considering the alternatives. Did you know, according to wiki, there are 23 registered parties in Singapore? TWENTY THREE. Without the PAP, there are 22 opposition parties in a country of a population reaching 5 million. People, PLEASE don't decide to vote against PAP for the sake of voting against PAP. Is the opposition even competent enough?! Have they even gotten their bloody act together to run a country?

Let's face it. No political party will ever be perfect. Our government right now is far from it and I disagree with a few of their policies. But why are we so against PAP just because of a few problems?! Where it matters, PAP has delivered. We have been doing relatively well in almost every economic crisis thus far, we have achieved stability and safety (yes, at a cost to freedom of speech, but nevertheless), and we are on the list of best countries to live in. Are you willing to give any of these up?

People nowadays are swayed with the promise of change. Especially those in my age group, they believe that the PAP has been in power far too long, and it'll be 'nice' to see a change. I myself have probably thought that. But at the end of the day, even if the opposition takes over, is there even going to be a positive change?

Look at the glaring recent history. The US put Barack Obama into power, drunk on the promise of change. But is there really change? Are there not still troops in Iraq? Has there been any action on climate change? NO. How about Australia? Last year, the then prime minister Kevin Rudd got kicked out and replaced by Julia Gillard because Aussies wanted change. But this year- election year, Gillard is not doing much besides implementing a carbon tax, and currently her political party looks like they might be kicked out too.

Now, look at our elections. What solid plans have the opposition came up with? Hmm. Not so opinionated now?

Let me tell you now why I WOULD vote for PAP. You don't have to agree, but I have thought about it long and hard from an economist point of view, and since I've been trained this way, I feel it's a VERY important point that has trumped every other argument for the opposition. 

In the time that the PAP has been in power, they have been able to make policies and effectively carry them out without fear of being voted out. Thus, this confidence in continuing power has enabled them to make plans for Singapore in the long term. If there IS a change in political parties in the government, would they make plans for Singapore 10 years down the road? For example, wiki (I know, the MOST trustworthy source ever, hurhur) claims that plans for the MRT circle line dates back from the 1980s. Government elections come by every 5 years. If the government thought that they would lose power, would they have bothered coming up with a development that is only apparent in about 30 years down the road? . 

Being in Australia has made me realise how blessed our government is to be able to be forward-looking (at least 10 years ahead). Using the MRT example again, Sydney railways has such a backward and inefficient operation. Someone once told me that Sydney's railways has not been changed since it started operations in the 1850s. Along that vein, there are constant massive jams on roads from bottlenecks in roads and new road planning and restructuring is sorely needed. But nothing's changed, because the politician in power (of the moment) just doesn't have the capacity to improve it during their term. They need more time than that.

Also, Australian labour policies are in a big mess since the time John Howard was prime minister (2 PMs ago man!). Without going into the boring details, he basically implemented a set of labour policies that was GOING to take effect, but didn't end up seeing the light of day because of elections and government change. And then Kevin Rudd got kicked out before he could delve into the nitty gritty of the labour policies. It doesn't look like anything will happen soon either, with Julia Gillard in a lot of hot water right now.
 
Sorry I talk a lot about Australia. It's hard to live here and not laugh at the entire political game they are playing over here. I mean, one of the criticisms of Julia Gillard during elections last year was her ear lobes. REALLY?? REALLY???
 
Anyway guys, I just want you to vote wisely. Don't be swayed by strong opinions, because for every pro, there is a con. I'll end this post with a random geeky economics theory where when elections are coming up, if politicians try to reduce the unemployment rate to artificial low levels for votes, the economy will eventually suffer later on with a higher inflation rate. 

VOTE WISELY GUYS!!
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Opportunities [Feb. 14th, 2011|04:39 am]
Yesterday I met up with a primary school friend, Jessie, whom I haven't seen in ages. I asked her why she chose to go to a neighbourhood secondary school instead of St. Anthony's. She could have easily gone to a school that could have given her more quality and opportunities in her education.

She told me that she has no regrets because it really opened up her eyes to see people from all walks of life, especially people who are really less fortunate and those who really cannot just catch a break in life. I asked her what made her think that SAC was an affluent school to begin with, and that there are definitely people from all kinds of backgrounds in our school too.

But I'm beginning not to even believe myself. When I look at friends and even myself on Facebook, we lead such comfortable and some even materialistic lives. My closest friends are cultured and talented and they have so much support going for them. Do I actually know someone from SAC that struggled to even pay the school fees back then? I know there are some, but they are few and far in between.

Let's not even take SACians. With meeting people from Australia and UNSW foundation, I've seen horses they've owned, been out on nights with people who can blow thousands in a bar in one night, met people who buy branded bags and clothes on impulse and on a regular basis.. It's even easy to forget how fortunate I really am. This probably wouldn't even be possible if I had chosen to stay in poly all those years ago.

So I guess I don't know anyone who is really destitute. Which sort of makes me feel ignorant and incredibly ungrateful for what I have. My friend Jessie knows that and doesn't take her life for granted. So I guess at the end of the day, she has the capacity and spirit to work harder for what she wants compared to me.

And maybe at the end of the day, even if we end up in the same places in life in the future, she has that satisfaction of knowing that she earned everything she has worked for, while I won't really appreciating what I have, and whining in a corner like a little bitch.
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Out of order [Nov. 30th, 2010|04:39 am]
I'm going through some of my old computer stuff while I'm back in Singapore. Lo and behold, I've found some really lethal blackmail material that is old primary/secondary school photos! Including OFFICIAL photos from SYF 2005 and Grad Night 2006. Why they trusted me with these photos, only God knows. I am considering putting them up on Facebook (now that there is such a breakthrough in humiliation through social media :D). Well anyway, until I am actually bored enough to do so, I wanted to share this. Another one of the multitude of frivolous things I found among my files.

20 fabulous ways to maintain a healthy level of Insanity

1. At Lunch Time, Stand next to the Main road With Sunglasses on and point a hairdryer at passing cars. See if they slow down.

2. Page yourself over the intercom. Don't disguise your voice.

3. Every time someone asks you to do something, ask if they want ketchup with that

4. Put your garbage can on your desk and label it "Inbox."

5. Put decaf in the coffee maker for 3 weeks. Once everyone has gotten over their caffeine addictions, switch to espresso.

6. In the memo field of all your checks, write "for sexual favors."

7. Finish all your sentences with "in accordance with the prophecy."

8. Don't use any punctuation.

9. As often as possible, skip rather than walk.

10. Ask people what sex they are. Laugh hysterically after they answer.

11. Sing along at the opera.

12. Go to a poetry recital and ask why the poems don't rhyme.

13. Put mosquito netting around your area in class and play tropical sounds all day.

14. Five days in advance, tell your friends you can't attend their party because you're not in the mood.

15. Have your classmates address you by your wrestling name, rock hard.

16. When the money comes out of the ATM, scream "I won!, I won!"

17. When leaving the zoo, start running towards the parking lot yelling,"Run for your lives! They're loose!!"

18. When you have children next time,tell them over dinner, "Due to the economy, we are going to have to let one of you go."

19. Write letters to mega corporations and complain about their products

20.Whenever you walk into the lift, face the back (not the door), and keep smiling... because that's the way to Life; SMiLe =D
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The eve of an exam, and I am discussing the species of the Singaporean Male. [Nov. 17th, 2010|01:31 am]
"In financial terms, Singaporean men are government bonds. And men overseas are well...Stocks? Junk bonds? The latter provide more thrill and possibly a higher return on investment. But also the possibility of wiping your investment out entirely. Singaporean men are dull, but the safe option."

-Kenneth
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BOO! [Aug. 11th, 2010|02:03 am]
I know I haven't blogged in FOREVER, and it seems so stupid to all of a sudden blog about something so trivial, but...


MONSTERS INC 2 IS COMING OUT OMGXYZUIFWJNFWKNFWWFIUHNWKJFN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I have been waiting for this for 478657398756205862865 yeaarrssss!!!!!

Like seriously, screw Toy Story, Monsters Inc is the most awesome Pixar film EVER. Discussion CLOSED.

:D :D :D

I can't wait to see Boo again! OMG I AM SO EXCITED!!!!!!


(Btw, I have a tendency to stalk cute baby girls. That might explain a lot.)


And I'll leave you with a quote until the next time I blog in 282482 years:

"God loves you just the way you are, but He loves you too much to let you stay that way." -Ashley, from Junebug
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